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Tuesday, August 1, 2023

August 1st, 2023

         When I was a kid, my mom moved me from a sad home in Chicago to another sad home in Broad Ripple.

   Broad Ripple is a neighborhood on the north side of Indianapolis, where my Gramma lived. The scenery changed, but the sadness followed my mom.

    I started jogging as a way to escape whatever was hanging over my mom and filling the house. At first, I probably ran because I was looking for trouble. Before long though, those miles became time alone. Time to breathe, think and try to sort things out.

   I ran the streets between Kessler Boulevard and Broad Ripple Avenue. Some days, I circled the old cinder track at Bishop Chatard High School or Broad Ripple High School, kicking up dust beneath my shoes.

         I was in pretty good shape for a Husky Kid.

    But every run eventually ended, and I always had to return to the sadness.

     Over the past couple of months, I’ve noticed a tattooed man jogging up and down my street here in Riverside. I would guess he is somewhere between thirty-eight and forty-five. His arms, shoulders and legs are covered with ink.

   When I first noticed him in early spring, he was rounder and moving slowly. He didn’t look comfortable. Every step seemed like work.

   During the past few weeks, though, he has started looking more angular, more pointed. His pace has picked up. He is no Olympic runner, but he is no longer simply pounding the pavement. He is beginning to glide as he jogs through the Divorced Dad District.

        I call him Tattoo Runner.

   Usually, when I see Tattoo Runner, I am sitting on my ass with something in my mouth.

           “Man,” I’ll say to myself, “there goes Tattoo Runner again.”

    Why do I keep seeing this guy and why the fuck does he keep jogging past my home?

   On Sunday morning, I spotted him coming down my street while I was climbing into Betty the Green Blazer to go get the newspaper.

   Betty and I hurried up the block and caught Tattoo Runner at the corner. I pulled over, rolled down the window and yelled, “Hey, buddy! Hold up for a second.”

     I got out of Betty, and Tattoo Runner removed his earbuds.

  I told him that I had been watching him run past my house for months. I told him how inspiring it had been to witness his progress. I said it was obvious that he had lost weight, got stronger and was moving better.

         He smiled.

   He seemed genuinely touched that somebody had noticed. He thanked me, put his earbuds back in and rumbled off down the street.

    Betty and I continued to the newsstand and then stopped at the European bakery on Cermak. I bought a Tribune and a Danish, because apparently witnessing inspiration burns calories.

    By the time we returned home, Tattoo Runner had completed another lap and was passing in front of my balcony again.

I carried my newspaper and Danish upstairs. By the time I reached my third-floor flat, I was out of breath. I set the Tribune on the counter, looked at the Danish and threw it in the trash.

    Then I got on Amazon and ordered a pair of running shoes and some compression socks.

    I’m tired of carrying groceries up three flights of stairs and feeling like an old man by the time I put them on the kitchen counter.

    I would also like to see more than the tip when I take my morning piss.

        So I’m following Tattoo Runner.

  I’m going to get out there and crack some sidewalks in Riverside.

I’m still going to be a Husky Kid. That is probably part of my permanent structure, but maybe I can become a smaller, stronger and slightly less winded Husky Kid.    Maybe I can put away the groceries without needing a grabber and an oxygen tank.

I have things left to do.

    Someday, I want to sing “Moon River” to an embarrassed adult Hazel at her wedding reception. I want to watch her roll her eyes and tell me to stop while secretly hoping I never do.

      And when that day comes, perhaps I’ll have Tattoo Runner to thank for giving me the push I needed.

             God gives us Tattoo Runners for a reason.

 Sometimes inspiration doesn’t arrive with trumpets, thunder or a voice from above. Sometimes it jogs slowly past your house wearing earbuds, covered in tattoos and carrying a few extra pounds.

     Today is the first day of August and the beginning of the rest of this life.

Maybe, because of Tattoo Runner, I’ll even be able to run a few sharp pass patterns at the Turkey Bowl this year.

     Have a great month, Chalkheads.

           …And tonight, let’s all get together and look at the moon.