The last Monday in August of ‘22. Labor Day weekend is upon us and the feeling of getting your money’s worth looms.
Middle aged, single dad trying to navigate parenthood and bachelorhood while working on a trading floor in Chicagoland. The "Chalkboard" is a daily post from the blackboard hanging in my kitchen. It has become my therapeutic tool that starts the day with accomplishment and a positive beginning to the day. "Don't forget to put the smile on the sun...." All Chalkheads are welcome to enjoy the ride.
Monday, August 29, 2022
August 29th, 2022
Sunday, August 28, 2022
August 28th, 2022
It’s a beautiful day in the neighborhood so why not quote Fred from down the block.
August 27th, 2022
It was hard being a kid in the 1970’s and trying to figure out lyrics to all the songs on WLS/890am. Forget any of the songs on the FM stations.
August 26th, 2022
I was nine when “Saturday Night Live” first aired in 1975. It took me awhile to figure out the comedy and that it was all improv.
August 24th, 2022
About this time every year when I was a kid I’d drum up what money I had and head over to the Kresges.
August 22nd, 2022
It never fails… I was having a bad dream and suddenly my pillow moved and I wake up at 2:22am.
Sunday, August 21, 2022
August 21st, 2022
Siri suggested I use “With the past, I have nothing to do; nor with the future. I live now” written by Ralphie Emerson.
August 20th, 2022
Get your eraser out if it’s offensive or hurtful. Tear it down if it’s painful.
Wednesday, August 17, 2022
August 17th, 2022
We are in the post dog days of summer transitioning into a new school year and a new season.
Tuesday, August 16, 2022
August 16th, 2022
I didn’t become a man until the day I became a father.
A couple days before I became a dad I was sitting in an Irish Pub with my buddy Eddie. He pointed to my belongings on the bar next to my pint. Sun glasses, keys, phone….“Jumbo? You see these few things you carry with you today? That will all change very soon.”
……and Eddie was right!
From that day forward and for many years to follow I left the house with diapers, wipes, pacifiers, bottles, vanilla wafers….
It was a complicated delivery, four weeks early. George’s mother had a tough time bringing our first child into the world.
I had my right hand behind her head, my left arm holding her leg up. We were breathing together, I was counting breaths and timing the pushes. It was the closest and most loving we ever were with each other.
Sixteen years later that baby is the size of an offensive guard. Unfortunately his mother and I are at the furthest and most hateful points in the relationship.
We did share the best day of our life together and that will never change. The day our firstborn arrived.
I saw Eddie recently…. 16 years later. Next to my bottle of beer laid my keys, my sunglasses and my phone.
In his Chicagonese accent,
“Life might seem simple again. Little kids, Little problems…. Big kids, Big problems!”
Southside Irish guys and their words of advice….
Happy Birthday Baby Jumbo.
Monday, August 15, 2022
August 15th, 2022
I’ve always believed in the power of prayer. My parents taught me how to pray before I could wipe my butt.
Sunday, August 14, 2022
August 14th, 2022
Do we get to reinvent ourselves throughout life or do we just age through the years?
Saturday, August 13, 2022
August 13th, 2022
I woke up this morning and I didn’t have to make pancakes for the first time in 70 days. Hazel didn’t crawl into my bed at 1:47am. I left things out knowing they won’t disappear.
Friday, August 12, 2022
August 12th, 2022
What kind of mark are we going to leave with the world?
Thursday, August 11, 2022
August 11th, 2022
You can look at it any way you want.
Wednesday, August 10, 2022
August 10th, 2022
The 2020’s have brought higher anxiety levels for all of us.
December 31st, 2019 held little promise and we had no idea where things were heading.Yesterday the cubs cut Jason Heyward. Jason Heyward is the blame for the downward spiral we have been on for the last six years. Jason Heyward unlocked the universal paradox that has unleashed havoc in the world. He has brought Biff back from the future and Biff used his sports almanac.
Jason Heyward gave a speech during a rain delay in Cleveland, Ohio on November 2nd, 2016. Since that speech and the outcome from those words, we have been in decline. The next week after Jayson Heyward motivated his baseball club to victory, we had a Presidential election.
That Trump victory was the first of many prices we’d pay when the curse of the Billy Goat was lifted. My marriage was ending at the same time. Mass shootings have escalated. Riots and civil unrest and the kicker was Covid. Psychologists are swamped these days. Politicians are at odds. Even the Pope wants to retire.
Anxiety is running rampant across the world. Don’t let it trip you up! Turn to something that holds your hand and calms your nerves.
Today is National S’mores day. When all else fails… a graham cracker, a Hersey chocolate bar and a marshmallow can save your soul.
Tuesday, August 9, 2022
August 9th, 2022
What did you do over your summer break?
Monday, August 8, 2022
August 8th, 2022
A person once told me I will never change… that I have no room to grow.
Sunday, August 7, 2022
August 7th, 2022
I’m not going to get to deep into today’s quote. Just know it was said by Nelson Mandela. Mr Mandela was imprisoned for 27 years.
August 6th, 2022
I have a picture of my mom, dad and step mother on my trading desk.
Friday, August 5, 2022
Saturday errands with my dad
I would get in the car with my dad on a Saturday morning to run errands.
Go for haircuts at the barber…grab breakfast at the diner… get a new watch battery at the clock shop… stop at the pharmacy and get insulin needles… get a lottery ticket and the Sunday papers on Saturday at White Hen.Once the important stuff was finished we’d adventure the Chicago Grid.
Don Shepley would show me remnants of the largest streetcar system in the country. Shut down by 1958 because “fucking GM” had to sell horrible buses to Mayor Daley.
Remember… my dad was a railroad man and buses and the interstate system were the enemy.
My dad also found little bakeries tucked away in the neighborhoods. He found “Nick Knack” stores, hot dog stands and Schlitz globes.
Our adventures took place from 1971ish until 2005 when he left Cook County for good.
My dad knew every Bohemian, Oriental, German, Soul food and Italian restaurant on every side of town.
Hot dog stand, fried shrimp, chili bar, taco wagon and White Castle as well.
We’d usually bring a loaf of bread, a coffee cake and a box of cannoli home at the end of our drive.
When we started out in the morning we’d listen to the Irish music and Polish music on WPNA. Then we’d switch over and listen to the golden radio show on WNIB.
The whole journey my dad was smoking cigarettes continuously….
I fucking hate cigarette smoke to this day!
We’d get home and my dad would take a nap and I’d imagine getting into his Fleetwood Brougham and travel back in time.
I would have loved to flash back to an earlier era in Chicago. If we got stuck my dad could easily get a job on the railroad and I could walk into the Board of Trade.
Just me and my dad stuck in 1928 Chicago….1938 Chicago…. 1948 Chicago…. 1958 Chicago.
I think when I finally join my dad in heaven we will be able to do this.
I hope God has Cadillacs, Jazz clubs, diners and bakeries in heaven…