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Friday, June 19, 2026

June 19th, 2026

            Today’s quote is about leaving the past behind.

    Apparently, I decided to take that advice literally.

        It is not often that I wake up on my couch with my clothes and shoes still on. When I checked my messages, my bartender informed me that I had left with an open tab, and my neighbor downstairs sent me a picture of a cigar ash in the back hallway along with a note explaining that the hallway smelled like a casino.

   I never get a Thursday night off from the markets, so it turned into one of those nights where the walk to the local bar was 675 steps and the walk home somehow stretched to 913.

I’m sure I left quite an impression on my acquaintances. Hopefully they remember that I rarely go out on a school night. That still isn't much of an excuse for pounding down four, maybe five, Old Fashioneds.

       It is 3:30 on a Friday morning and I don’t have to stand at a trading desk today.

 It would have been nice to wake up next to someone who loves me and make a pot of coffee together, but instead I’m sitting alone with a cool breeze drifting through the window and a headache pounding behind my eyes.

      Yesterday I quit all my social media accounts.

 I had been on Facebook since 2008. Eighteen years with Mark Zuckerberg is longer than I was married to Terese.

      This morning I reached for my phone to check for likes and comments that no longer exist. I never thought of myself as an addictive person, but apparently, I had become pretty attached to posting my thoughts to a shit ton of strangers.

    At some point I started wondering why I was sharing my worries and anxieties with 1,679 people. The truth is that I probably never met 1,300 of them.

   The more I thought about it, the more it seemed like one more thing from the past that needed to be left behind. So today I must slink down to the bar, pay my tab, apologize if necessary, and find a way to deodorize the back hallway.

          After that?

                    Who knows.

    It is a national holiday. I don't have to work, I don't have Facebook and I don't have TikTok.

What I do have is a three-day weekend and a little more time to look for gusto and astonishment.

        Happy Friday, Chalkheads.

    Now if you will excuse me, I need a large glass of water and enough aspirin to make peace with yesterday's decisions.