There isn’t a magic trick to getting better. It is repetition, grit, and a little bit of grace. Life doesn’t suddenly turn itself around on a Tuesday morning because you wish it so. It turns around because you keep showing up and putting your ass on the line. You keep doing the small things that add up to something big. You keep pushing the broom, paying the bill, saying “thank you,” and trying again tomorrow and the next day.
Just a Chicago guy juggling fatherhood and bachelorhood. An old trading floor broker now rolling in Chet the Ford Lemon, living by the river. These stories are life lessons meant to make you laugh, cry, and think. The “Chalkboard” is my daily post, scribbled on the blackboard in my kitchen—a ritual, a bit of therapy, and a small win to start the day. All Chalkheads are welcome to ride along.
Wednesday, October 15, 2025
October 15th, 2025
Maybe better doesn’t necessarily mean richer, thinner, or younger. Maybe it just means calmer, kinder and wiser. Maybe “better” means learning how to not let the world piss you off so easily.
I have slowly learned that progress is sneaky, it doesn’t always announce itself with grandeur. Sometimes it just shows up quietly in how you handle the same old problem without losing your cool. That is better in my book.
So keep at it.
Whatever your “it” is…
…keep moving it, keep working it, keep loving it.
Because it really is getting better all the time.
Enjoy the Beatles earworm